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January 22, 2010

International And Inter-racial Dating

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , — Owen Jones @ 6:18 pm

This piece of writing is about my experiences of international and inter-racial dating. It is simply an account of what I have witnessed and experienced myself over the course of my life so far, although at 55 years old, I am nearer the end of it than the beginning. It is my guidance on dealing with an international or inter-racial relationship.

It all began at an early age when I was in infant school at seven. There was a Filipina girl in our class and I could not take my eyes off her, although I almost certainly did not know much about it then. We parted at eight when they moved closer to another school and I never saw her again.

My next encounter with a foreign girl, was the mademoiselle junior teacher at school and I was convinced that I would marry a French country girl when I grew up. That passed when the German helper arrived.

When I was fourteen, I went on a school cruise to Leningrad and there was a party of exchange students going home to Sweden on the same ship. I went out with one of them for roughly a week and first realized the problems that can come from international dating. There was a minor language barrier, but it was fun getting over that. The real difficulty came, because I had predetermined ideas of what Swedish girls were like, probably instilled in me after years of silly ‘Carry On’ films.

At sixteen, I went to Germany to work for the summer and I found it very easy to get on with the German girls, although they were shyer that I was expecting too. Also an outlook I owed to silly Health and Efficiency ’sex films’.

After finishing university, I moved to The Netherlands to live. It was the seventies and Dutch girls were great. However, I made friends with male British colleagues first and soon saw some of the issues that can come from an international relationship. Most of the men I knew were typical Brits and made totally no attempt to learn Dutch at all. Surprisingly, many Dutch people could not speak English either, particularly the parents.

This lead to a surprising quantity of tense moments in a week and that put a lot of pressure on my friends’ relationships. It is so easy to start name-calling when you are angry and it is the worst thing you can do. The Dutch girlfriend or her parents or friends would be called ‘a stupid cheese eater’ or something equally daft and the relationship was over or in trouble for days. I do not recall what the Dutch called us.

I vowed to myself there and then never to get serious about a foreign girl because the arguments were just too much. Food was never a problem. Culture was not much of a problem, although where I was in southern Netherlands, most people were Catholic and I am not. This did perplex some parents but not me. Travelling was always going to be the drawback. Do you live by her parents or yours? Especially when children start arriving. Most countries have stronger family ties than Britain.

Then, at 50, having never been married, I went to Thailand, where I met my wife-to-be. Asian culture is very different from British or even European society and it is a real shock to both parties. Anyway, five years into our relationship and we are still fine. I recollect the reasons I gave myself for not marrying abroad when in The Netherlands and I was wrong, but not much.

If you are going to enter into an international or even inter-racial relationship, you had better learn how to manage your anger. It is the most important advice you will ever get. Being understanding of other points of view is important too, but not getting angry is more important. Furthermore, you must try to learn something about your partner’s land, culture and language, otherwise you cannot join in any discussion your partner may have with someone who does know a bit about it.

I have never seen religion be a problem ever, except in an argument. My wife is Buddhist and I am not. We talk about it, but there is never any stress. Food, again I have never seen a problem in this field. Clothing, again no problem in my life. If you get into an international or inter-racial relationship, keep your temper, do not shout, do not get angry and talk things out calmly.

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January 15, 2010

Premature Ejaculation Spray-Do They Work?

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , — Daniel Faust @ 1:49 pm

Do you suffer from premature ejaculation? If so then you are going through the same thing many males across the united states are going through. Don’t worry though, this is easily preventable with the use of premature ejaculation spray. By the time you are done reading this article you will know everything you need to know about this incredible spray.

How It Works

You are probably wondering right now how the spray actually works huh? It is actually really simple and complex at the same time. The spray consists of water and some sort of anesthetic. The majority of sprays out there use lidocaine anesthetic. When you apply it to the tip of your penis you are actually taking away some of the sensitivity for about the next hour. The less sensitive the penis becomes, the longer you will be able to last.

Do The Results Last?

If you are wondering whether or not the results are permanent, the answer is no. Because of this, you will need to use the spray each and every time you and your lover have sex. The good news is the sprays are always getting cheaper so they are affordable. This means if you need to use it a lot it wont take a huge chunk out of your wallet. The only problem is that it might become too much of a hassle and you obviously won’t be able to last longer if you don’t have the spray with you.

Is there any way to get permanent results?

Yes, but it is impossible with the use of spray. In order to get permanent results you are going to have to do what is called exercises for your penis. This might sound a bit odd to the majority of you but it works very well. There are certain exercises you can do for your penis that will allow you to last longer in bed.

Is the spray safe?

A ton of studies have been done on this spray and there are no side effects. If you are holding back from getting it because you are afraid of side effects, then you have nothing to worry about.

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Preventing Premature Ejaculation-How To Last Longer In Bed

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , — Daniel Faust @ 1:46 pm

Preventing premature ejaculation is actually easy and there are many things you can do for it. . In this article you are about to read we are going to be going over three of the most popular and best ways to overcome premature ejaculation. If you truly commit yourself to these steps, you should not be surprised if you last up to six times longer within the next few months.

1-Consider using some creams

You can use creams to almost instantly help you last longer in bed. These creams will allow you to last much longer in bed because they make your penis a little less sensitive. Most men who suffer from premature ejaculation do so because they are very sensitive to sex, by using a cream and making it less sensitive you will last way longer than you use to. This is also available in a spray form, but people have found cream to get the best results.

2-Control Your Breathing

If you get really excited when making love with your partner, the chances are you are starting to speed up your breathing. When you start to breathe faster, you will begin to have sex faster. If you are having faster sex you will ejaculate quicker. If you are moving too fast during sex you will usually always experience premature ejaculation. Just remember to take slow, deep breaths and you will be fine and last much longer.

3-Make Sure You Have Strong PC Muscles

This is by far the most important tip when trying to overcome premature ejaculation. If you can strengthen your PC muscles (the muscle that you contract when you have to urinate) you will be able to end premature ejaculation for the rest of your life. Strengthening this muscle is easy, all you have to do is squeeze it for as long as you can then relax for a few seconds. Repeat this ten times and make sure you do it every day.

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January 14, 2010

How To Overcome Premature Ejaculation Easily

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , — Daniel Faust @ 12:35 pm

It is important to learn how to overcome premature ejaculation if you want to satisfy your lover in every way, shape, and form in bed. By the time you are done reading this article you will know exactly what you need to do to last longer in bed and stop premature ejaculation with ease. However, before you start reading, I want to make sure you believe in yourself because if you don’t none of this will work.

1-Use the start and stop method

All men know when they are about to have an orgasm, if you don’t then you need to make sure you get to know your body a little better. One of the best ways to prevent premature ejaculation is called the start and stop method. The method is very simple, you just stop all sexual activity when you think you are about to have an orgasm. It is important you do not wait to long or else you will reach the “point of no return” where you will ejaculate no matter how hard you try to hold it.

2-Have a good and controlled breathing pattern

One of the best ways to cure premature ejaculation is to control your breathing. Take nice deep breaths in and slowly let it out. The faster you breathe the faster you are going to orgasm. When you are breathing slowly, your entire body will be in a relaxed state. If you want to last a long time in bed it is important your body is relaxed.

3-Try using some creams

If you think you are suffering from premature ejaculation because you are too sensitive then this tip is for you. A great way to take away some of the sensitivity is to use some sort of desensitizing cream. You should be able to locate this kind of cream at any pharmacy around your area. If you are having some trouble finding some, check your local Walgreen’s. Another way to make it less sensitive is to actually use condoms, but most guys don’t like condoms.

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January 12, 2010

Penis Enlargement Patch-Do They Work?

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , — Daniel Faust @ 6:09 pm

I am sure you already know there are hundreds of things out there that claim to get you a bigger penis. We have seen pills, stretchers, weights, creams, and sprays.

But one thing we have not seen much of (because it is new) is the penis enlargement patch. In this article we are going to be going over how this patch works and whether or not it is worth trying out.

The really cool thing about your skin is the fact that is has an extremely protective barrier but it will still let vitamins and minerals to enter into the blood stream. This means that penis enlargement patches are actually better than the pills because they both have the same ingredients but the pills have to actually go through the digestive tract whereas the penis enlargement patches just enter straight into the blood stream.

One thing people always seem to want to know when it comes to penis enlargement patches is if there are any side effects. It is good to make sure you do your research before trying these patches out, but currently all the studies have concluded that there are no known side effects. Actually, if anything these patches are healthy for you because of some of the vitamins and minerals that get into your blood system. So these things don’t just give you a bigger penis, they are great for your health in general.

So what about the results? Does it actually get the results they promise? Well truthfully, it will get results but nothing like they promise. Most of these companies promise you can gain three inches within a matter of six weeks or so, that is not going to happen. Is it possible to gain three inches? Yes, but not within a matter of six weeks. You may have to wait six months for that to happen.

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January 10, 2010

All Natural Male Enhancement-How To Get A Bigger Penis

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , — Tom Freeno @ 8:47 am

Have you been searching for an all natural male enhancement? If so I am glad you are here. For those people that do not want to take pills the best thing to do is exercise your penis. By the time you are done reading this article you will have learned three of the best exercises to make your penis bigger.

1-1-The stretch and relax

The very first exercise we will be talking about is actually one of the oldest, which means it has been proven by time to work. This is very simple but should never be performed until your penis is properly warmed up. Once it is warmed up, this is all you have to do. Grab it right below the head and pull on it until you feel a good stretch. Hold the stretch for ten to twenty seconds then release, shake it out and perform again on the left side then the right side. This can be performed every day.

2-PC strengthening

This exercise will not actually make your penis bigger but it will prevent you from experiencing premature ejaculation which is really important. Although this is not the most important exercise to get a bigger penis it is still important for erection strength. All you have to do is squeeze your PC muscle (the muscle that you squeeze when you have to urinate) for as long as you can then relax. You can perform this exercise every day.

3-The Jelq (the king of male enhancement)

If you have been searching for all natural male enhancement exercises for any amount of time you have no doubt heard about this one. This exercise is so popular and so famous because it has been proven time and time again the be the best. To perform this exercise, you want to take your thumb and index finger and make on “ok” sign with them. Grab the base of your penis with that sign and slowly work your way to the top. You must be at a half erect state when performing this. Any more or less and it will not work. Do not do this exercise any more than three times per week.

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January 9, 2010

Ways To Make Your Penis Bigger-How To Quickly Make It Bigger

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , — Mike Lemburg @ 12:22 pm

Believe it or not there are many ways to make your penis bigger. By the time you are done reading this article you will have learned that two of the best ways to accomplish it. Through pills and through natural exercise techniques.

1-Decide whether or not pills are the best option

If there is one thing that is certain when you make up is that at some point in the day you will hear or see some kind of advertisement for male enhancement pills. You will probably hear an ad on the radio, or at least see a commercial on TV, no matter how it happens, it will eventually happen. Because of this people automatically think it is a scam. But if we are going to be honest, they actually do work, but not as well as we are told. You will get results for about an hour to two hours, but that is it, the results will not last forever.

2-Exercise your way to a bigger penis

it is totally understandable if you do not feel like wasting your money on pills because if you have to take them every time you have sex, that will get expensive. Your next best option is to do male enhancement exercises. The number of exercises you can do for your penis is literally limitless, but we will be talking about the two best exercises today.

Let’s start off by talking about the jelq. Not only is this exercise easy to perform but it is also the best. All you do is make an OK sign with your thumb and index finger, grab the base of your penis and slowly work your way up to just below the head. Repeat with the other hand.

After that has been performed you should strengthen your PC muscle by doing PC contractions. Doing this will not actually make you bigger, but it will allow you to hold in your semen longer which will prevent premature ejaculation. Just squeeze the PC muscle like you would if you were about to urinate.

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January 4, 2010

Are there Sexual Headaches?

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , — Bob Jones @ 7:43 am

Orgasm is usually an enjoyable and happy activity for most people, however it can become less enjoyable for others who find that it starts coital headaches. For these people, sexual activity of any kind can result in coital headache attacks.

Technically, a headache, or cephalalgia, is a symptom of a number of different conditions of the head and sometimes the neck too. They can be classified into two main groups: primary or idiopathic, and symptomatic, although there are other ways of classifying them too; for example by severity.

Put simply, primary headaches have a known or unknown cause, whereas symptomatic headaches are often the result of injury. Primary headaches include: migraine, tension headaches, cluster headaches and coital headaches, amongst others.

Coital headaches, also named coital cephalalgia or sexual headaches, is a rare, but severe form of headache that starts in the base of the neck during sexual intercourse, but before climax. It can happen in all conditions where climax is the expected result. The pain can move to behind the eyes and can then be even worse. Typically the pain will last from a few minutes to an hour or so, but some cases have been known to last for days in extreme cases.

It is surprising to many to discover that men are three times more likely to experience coital headaches than women and the age groups most at risk are those between 20 and 25 and 30 and 44. Doctors do not really understands why this should be. Coital headaches afflict about one percent of the population, although this number could be a lot higher due to people being embarrassed to discuss it.

Moreover, coital headaches are benign, which means that they have no long-term adverse consequences, as far as doctors know. It appears that people taking sexual stimulants, like Cialis, are roughly 10% more at risk to a coital headache. In deed, apart from the obvious, temporary pain, the worst issues of coital headaches are differing degrees of dizziness, confusion and stiffness of neck.

However, it is still worth while seeing a doctor though, especially in the early cases, just to rule out the more serious reasons for headaches, such as brain tumours and blood clots. However, the doctor can do rather little to help by way of cure. He may suggest a complete abstention from any form of sexual practice for a period varying from days to weeks or he may recommend trying taking medication some time before sexual foreplay begins.

A couple of the headache medicines that can be used are indomethacin, imitrex, zomig and propranolol, although if the headaches persist, your doctor may prescribe some other preventive medicines to be used on a daily basis. Sufferers of frequent coital headaches may also obtain a positive response to migraine preventive medications, such as beta blockers or verapamil. Non-steroidal anti inflammatory drugs (NSAIDS) such as ibuprofen may also be beneficial. Coital headaches and migraines are also more likely to occur if the person is in poor physical health.

However, the treatment for coital headaches for a lot of people can be as simple as bringing your weight up or down to the normal weight for your size. Coital headaches can also be cured in some sufferers by an increased level of exercise, although this could bring on exertion headaches in a few cases.

The good news is though that most headaches related to sex are not serious in nature. In fact, various studies actually suggest that orgasm can relieve headaches and migraine in some cases. This implies that for some adults, refusing sex may actually be the reason that prevents headache treatment.

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November 22, 2009

About Gay Unions

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , — Barry Jones @ 3:43 pm

The debate on gay marriages has been a very hot political topic for many years and because it is such a hot subject, the number of places that have come out publicly either for or against the topic is not surprising. While there are few states which allow gay or same-sex marriage, there are some that are more liberal, allowing almost equal rights. Massachusetts is currently the only state in the United States that allows same-sex marriages. The state of Rhode Island is liberal enough to recognize as legal, any same-sex marriage that is performed in Massachusetts, which is a major victory according to many same-sex supporters.

Elections of latter years have seen this as a very hot subject and with the White House stressing publicly that marriage must only involve a man and a woman, not same-sexes, many states have been very reluctant to permit same-sex marriages. However, a few states have allowed same-sex civil unions, which are very similar to marriage.

These states are California, Connecticut, Hawaii, Maine, New Jersey, and Vermont. The District of Columbia also recognizes same-sex unions and the Governor of New Hampshire has stated publicly that he will soon sign a bill giving the OK to same-sex unions. This is a major victory for those who support the movement.

While many states have not given the green light on the same-sex issue, there are states that are sitting around discussing the subject. Many couples who are fighting for their rights have argued that there is absolutely no difference in the way they run their households compared with their heterosexual counterparts. They have also pointed out that while they may be with a partner who is the same sex as them, they do still love their partner and ought to have the legal right to get married too.

This has always been a contentious subject, and likely will continue to be a contentious topic for many years to come. With the issues raging within the states and at the national level, it will probably be a very long time before the gay and lesbian rights groups are able to truly declare a victory for their cause. Nevertheless, there is some solace to be taken in the small triumphs as they occur, and another Governor of a state being ready to allow a civil union is at least a move in the direction of victory.

However, the fact is that the actions of the individual states tend to reflect the opinions of the President. With a President in office who is a staunch opponent of same-sex marriage and civil union, it is unlikely to allow much room for many more victories until a more accommodating, or rather liberal, President is in the White House. Only time will tell what President Obama’s views are.

After the bill has passed through all the channels of state, it will go into effect as early as the next year for the New Hampshire residents, who have been waiting patiently. Each state that gives this right to its residents opens the door to more states to become more tolerant. Finally, this paves the way for America to join the bulk of Europe in sanctioning the legal inequalities of straight and gay couples nationwide.

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October 19, 2009

The First Date

Filed under: Uncategorized — Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , , , , — Marion Rose Jones @ 5:37 pm

When you go on a date with someone there are specific things you should or should not do and specific ways you should conduct yourself. Of course you want the individual to get to know you, so, first off, you oughtn’t try to be someone that you are not.

When you go out on a date you ought to look clean and dress nicely. This will show the other person, not only that you think about about your appearance, but that you also care about what they think about you. After all, If you don’t care about what the other person thinks, then you probably shouldn’t be going out on a date with them in the first place, should you?

This suggestion really depends on the person you are taking out. It applies more to a man dating a woman, obviously, but some women don’t like having doors opened for them either. You will have to play it by ear. I think that the best guidance I can offer, is that you should remember to open the car doors and all doors for that matter (except the washroom door) for your date, unless you are told or you sense otherwise.

A lot of younger women might say they wouldn’t judge a man by his door-opening behavior, but I think it does form a beneficial part of the overall picture she will be building up of you. However, if the woman you are going out with is an obvious feminist, then you had better let her open the doors for herself – just let her get on with it or it might trouble her. She might also want to pay for her own meal, but that’s not a bad thing is it?

Make sure that you punctual. Be there when you say you will be there to pick her up and be ready to pay for the entire date. It may not come to that, she may buy a drink or two, but you can’t count on it, so slip a credit card in your wallet too. Better safe than sorry and you wouldn’t want to have walk home., would you?

So, that brings us conveniently to the next point, which is, don’t take your date somewhere you cannot pay for because you never want to find yourself asking your date for a loan to pay the bill, unless you don’t want to see her again.

Another part of dating etiquette also relates to not making the other person feel as if they are on an interview. It is all too familiar for people on a date to ask too many questions because they want to get to know the other person quickly. However, how would you feel, if you were asked twenty questions between every course or drink? It is well-intentioned, but irritating. It is far better to have, say, half-a-dozen interesting, non-personal questions that you can discuss at more length.

If you push them too far, if you get too personal too quickly, you may scare them off. Just try to generate a comfortable atmosphere by being considerate and yourself.

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