The debate on gay marriages has been a very hot political topic for many years and because it is such a hot subject, the number of places that have come out publicly either for or against the topic is not surprising. While there are few states which allow gay or same-sex marriage, there are some that are more liberal, allowing almost equal rights. Massachusetts is currently the only state in the United States that allows same-sex marriages. The state of Rhode Island is liberal enough to recognize as legal, any same-sex marriage that is performed in Massachusetts, which is a major victory according to many same-sex supporters.
Elections of latter years have seen this as a very hot subject and with the White House stressing publicly that marriage must only involve a man and a woman, not same-sexes, many states have been very reluctant to permit same-sex marriages. However, a few states have allowed same-sex civil unions, which are very similar to marriage.
These states are California, Connecticut, Hawaii, Maine, New Jersey, and Vermont. The District of Columbia also recognizes same-sex unions and the Governor of New Hampshire has stated publicly that he will soon sign a bill giving the OK to same-sex unions. This is a major victory for those who support the movement.
While many states have not given the green light on the same-sex issue, there are states that are sitting around discussing the subject. Many couples who are fighting for their rights have argued that there is absolutely no difference in the way they run their households compared with their heterosexual counterparts. They have also pointed out that while they may be with a partner who is the same sex as them, they do still love their partner and ought to have the legal right to get married too.
This has always been a contentious subject, and likely will continue to be a contentious topic for many years to come. With the issues raging within the states and at the national level, it will probably be a very long time before the gay and lesbian rights groups are able to truly declare a victory for their cause. Nevertheless, there is some solace to be taken in the small triumphs as they occur, and another Governor of a state being ready to allow a civil union is at least a move in the direction of victory.
However, the fact is that the actions of the individual states tend to reflect the opinions of the President. With a President in office who is a staunch opponent of same-sex marriage and civil union, it is unlikely to allow much room for many more victories until a more accommodating, or rather liberal, President is in the White House. Only time will tell what President Obama’s views are.
After the bill has passed through all the channels of state, it will go into effect as early as the next year for the New Hampshire residents, who have been waiting patiently. Each state that gives this right to its residents opens the door to more states to become more tolerant. Finally, this paves the way for America to join the bulk of Europe in sanctioning the legal inequalities of straight and gay couples nationwide.
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